Tuesday, August 3, 2010

On Life Skills, Chores & Helping hands

I blogged over at Jersey Moms Blog about Chores or Child Labor?  and my kids love of helping out when I do the grocery shopping. They are huge fans of the self-checkout and the new "Scan-It" system that they have put in at our local Stop & Shop.  Going shopping with the kids is a breeze and they scan all my groceries either at check-out or with Scan-It.  Its really taught them quite a bit about prices and reading ingredients. Plus they are all about the re-usable grocery bags which is a help since half the time, I'd bring them in and forget to put them back in the car.  While shopping yesterday Alex asked yesterday for a particular brand of applesauce and also if we could buy corn. When we got home he helped me shuck the corn and get it ready for dinner.  He also prepped the fresh peas the other day from their pods - a "chore" that I personally find very tedious and boring. He had a blast.

Alex has made huge gains this past year in the Life Skills department. It all started when his teacher sent home a checklist and asked the kids to do things like set the table, take out the trash, or make their beds.   He took to taking out the trash with gusto.  It is one of the few things that when I ask him to do, he'll easily tear himself away from my laptop or a video game and go find his shoes and take the trash out.   He also likes to do some laundry related tasks like folding towels and also matching socks. 

I'm currently reading the book Autism Life Skills: From Communication and Safety to Self-Esteem and More - 10 Essential Abilities Every Child Needs and Deserves to Learn by Chantal Sicile Kira and I highly recommend it to parents of kids on the autism spectrum.  Especially as Alex gets older (he is approaching 10) I've become even more aware of all the things that he'll need to know how to do in order to live independently.  It took him a long time to be able to get dressed independently (and he still often puts shirts and pants on backwards or picks clothing that is not seasonally appropriate) and to self initiate his bed time.  We take things one day at a time here, but I can say quite confidently that I am very hopeful for him and the direction he is headed.

Related post:
Learning Life Skills at School
Autism Life Skills: From Communication and Safety to Self-Esteem and More - 10 Essential AbilitiesEvery Child Needs and Deserves to Learn

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