She also worships the ground that he walks on and wants to be JUST like him. Alex likes to bowl and is part of the Challenger bowling league for special needs children. But, Belle can't bowl because she is 1) too young and 2)not special needs (I suppose I could press her vision issues but I feel that would be taking a space away from a child that deserves the space moreso). Thankfully, the local Autism group POAC comes to the rescue and offers a Sibling bowling group. Every couple of months they open up the bowling alley and invite brothers and sisters of kids with autism to come out and bowl. The kids can bowl, chat, enjoy treats and then a dinner of pizza & soda. There's no charge for this event, also - amazing. Belle had a blast, of course.
My point in sharing this is simple. Don't forget the siblings of kids with autism and never underestimate the bonds they form. I'd like to think that my daughter is taking from having a sibling with autism many positives. Compassion, Patience, an Open Mind, Acceptance and most of all Happiness. Also, I know that my son has gained immensely from having a little sister. She is able to engage him, plays with him and we credit a lot of my son's language development to her.
One thing for certain - I have no doubt in my mind - They are friends.
Artwork by Alex of him with his sister and their bowling balls!
4 comments:
Yes! we cannot forget the siblings. My 3 neurotypical daughters all have different types of relationships with their eldest (ASD) sister. They get scratched and kicked sometimes, and ignored most of the rest of the time. They never get upset about it. They love her and help her so much, especially my 4 year old who is a compassionate heart. Though my oldest may not show it, I know she feels loved, and my 3 younger daughters will only benefit from this experience and will know to treat everyone with respect and kindness... no matter how 'different' they appear :)
thanks for giving a 'shout out' to the sibs!
Did your son draw that pic? It's awesome.
By the way, Mr. Busypants, my son, is also named Alex. Small world.
I couldn't agree more about the siblings! Great post! And great drawing by Alex!
He never ceases to amaze me with his art!
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