There are a plethora of gift guides on the internet with gift ideas for the child with autism in your life. Two great guides that I suggest are:
Toy Ideas for Kids and Tweens with Autism - Autism Spectrum Disorders @ Bella Online
Toys R Us Gift Guide for Differently-Abled KidsBuying a gift for a child with autism can be tough. A lot of people have come to me over the years and asked me "
What gift should I buy for an autistic child?". That's not enough information. Children with autism, like all children - have their own likes and dislikes, abilities and strengths. How old is the child? Boy or Girl? Do they like 'noisy' toys or are they afraid of them? Do they have motor delays? Are they tech-savvy?
Still, I thought I would spend some time and spotlight a few of the gifts that have been biggest hits for my son, Alex - he is 7 (soon to be 8 years old) and on the Autism spectrum. Alex is an extremely tech-savvy child. He has no fine motor issues but struggles with some gross motor activities (he has hypotonia, low muscle tone and trunk strength). He loves arts and music - on his own terms. These are a few gifts that he has enjoyed the most:
Go-Ped Grow-Ped Kick Scooter
: I wrote a
review of the scooter we have, which is this scooter in blue. I chose this Scooter because my son saw some of the neighborhood kids using skateboards and Razor scooters but I had reservations about getting him either of those. The advantage to this
Go-Ped Grow-Ped Kick Scooter
is that it is very stable - it has a larger wheel base and a broad wooden platform. The things that make it safer and easy to use give it a very cool "retro" look so it doesn't look babyish. My 7 year old son is not yet able to ride a bike without training wheels which is a sore spot (and he doesn't want to ride his bike), but he loves to ride his scooter. If you buy a scooter, do not forget a
helmet
Toys that teach about Money: Maybe it is in the genes, as my father and younger brother are numismatics (coin collectors). My son loves money, specifically coins and so we have been working with him on learning how to count and save money. With the
Deluxe ATM Machine
he is able to use his very own ATM card and access this automated coin bank (it also takes dollars) using an access code. This has the benefit of keeping his little sister out of his $$$$, but he also likes to deposit and withdraw repeatedly and doesn't quite "get" that you need to manually enter your withdrawals so according to my son's ATM he has a better bank balance than I do most of the time. If the ATM is too complicated a concept, a better choice is this
Electronic Money Jar
which is a self-counting coin jar. PS. Santa, I have asked for one of these this year for me. I am always amazed at how fast coins accumulate and how much that "spare change" in the bottom of my purse really adds up to. Speaking of adding things up, an excellent choice for kids who like pretend play that also teaches about counting money is the
Learning Resources Pretend & Play Calculator Cash Register
. I first saw this in a classroom and then "scored" it at a yard sale with no missing pieces. Now that we have had this, I would have gladly paid full price for it. Learning Resources is one of my favorite brands for educational toys. They also make the
Time Tracker
which is a digital timer that lights up and uses zones like a stoplight - red, yellow, and green. My only problem with the Time Tracker has been that my son quickly learned how to reprogram it so that when I wasn't looking he would re-set it to add more time.
LeapFrog Toys
: Over the years my son has grown up on Leapfrog toys. In early pre-school years the fridge magnet sets were both educational, reinforcing (he loved to press a button repeatedly), and a good occupier while I was in the kitchen and wanted him in there with me. We had the
Fridge Phonics Magnetic Alphabet Set
and the
Fridge Farm Magnetic Animal Set
. There is also a world builder version. My son has
hyperlexia and loves letters, numbers, and reads well beyond age level. Still to this day he can amuse himself with a set of good old-fashioned alphabet and number magnets. My friends look forward to the messages he leaves them on their fridge when he visits.
My son loves to read and also loves electronic toys. Nothing beats a "good old fashioned book" but the
LeapPad
learning system was a fun electronic book reader toy that satisfied his need for tech and reading books. The new
Tag Reading System
takes away the bulky plastic reader and corded magic-pen and packs the fun of the LeapPad into a cordless pan that can "read" special coded books. Excellent for preschoolers, pre-readers, and early readers.
Yes, we've played with many a LeapFrog toy. By far, the biggest winner for my son has been his
Leapster
. The Leapster is an educational handheld gaming system. It is suggested for children ages 4+ and comes with a few basic pre-loaded educational games. Additional cartridges focusing on math & reading featuring popular branded characters can be purchased separately. My son played with his leapster all the time in waiting rooms, car-rides, travel, shopping trips, and more. His leapster helped me get through many a shopping trip and traffic jam without a meltdown. He loved/loves video games but I wanted something educational for him and non-violent and this fit the bill perfectly. LeapFrog has come out with a new version called the
Leapster 2
which features online connectivity where parents can track kids learning online. For children who are a bit older, LeapFrog has come out with a new gaming system called the
Didj
for the 6 to 10 year old agegroup.
Nintendo is our choice for a child with Autism:My son has outgrown his Leapster and has essentially taken over my
Nintendo DS Lite
that I received as a gift last year from my husband. I can see why he loves it, its like the leapster that "grew up" with faster paced games and better graphics. My son's favorite Nintendo DS games are:
Cooking Mama
, Petz Catz 2
, and
Diner Dash
. One word of advice if you purchase your child with autism (or any child) a DS - stock up on extra styluses - they are small and not corded so they get lost easily. I have purchased them in bulk from eBay before and gotten them for pennies a piece. There is also the
Nerf Armor
to protect this pricey electronic from getting broken when it is dropped.
Another gift that was mine - but with the whole family in mind, was our
Nintendo Wii
. The Wii has been a gift that the entire family from my 3 year old typical child, my 7 year old with autism and my husband and I (both 30somethings) love. Bowling which is on Wii Sports is Alex's favorite and he mastered it quickly. He was then able to take the skills learned from Wii Bowling and apply them to actual bowling in a bowling alley - something that had previously been a disaster for him. The Wii has helped him get over sensory hurdles, improve coordination, and engage his whole body. The Wii is an active gaming system and I love that my son isn't just sitting in front of the TV vegging out, instead it gets him up and moving. There will most definitely be some new Wii games for him under the christmas tree this year. Check out:
Active Life Outdoor Challenge
, Wii Fit
, Mario Kart with Wii Wheel
, and
Wii Music
.Learn more about the Wii and Autism:I'm a believer in Wii Therapy!!!
Consider the Nintendo Wii for Kids with Autism
To Purchase or Learn More about the products featured in this post visit:
Featured Gifts for a child with Autism:http://www.bonbongazette.com/2008/12/featured-gifts-for-children-with-autism.html
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